thanks for following up. I think this is one of those conversations that works better in front of a white board - it's surprisingly tricky to express in words.

if the demo was mainly to show that it's the jet of air expelled out the back that's providing thrust, then, fine it does that and its a valuable lesson. I guess I'm hung up on the technicality that there is actually a real movement of air mass even without that rearward jet and that has to be felt by the apparatus - I guess it's just unnoticeably small in the real world demo.

anyhow, my confidence in physics intuition has been shaken. thanks bunches.