Careful: we don't really talk about things which are "true but unprovable" in first-order logics.
By Goedel's completeness theorem, if a statement is true in all models of a first-order theory then it is provable. For any recursively axiomisable first-order theory of sufficient complexity, there exists some sentence which isn't provable [Goedel's First Incompleteness Theorem]: by contraposition of completeness, there exist models of the theory where the sentence is true, and models where the sentence is false.
So when you say "true but unprovable", you're probably talking about truth in the so-called "intended model": if something is independent of the first-order system (e.g. ZF) you're using as a foundation of mathematics, then you get to decide whether it's true or not! Once you've proven independence via e.g. forcing, it's up to you to decide whether the sentence should hold in your intended model: then you can add the appropriate axiom to your system.
Choice is independent from ZF: most mathematicians are OK with choice, so they chose to work in ZFC, but some aren't. Neither is "more valid" or "more true" from a purely logical perspective.
Careful: we don't really talk about things which are "true but unprovable" in first-order logics.
By Goedel's completeness theorem, if a statement is true in all models of a first-order theory then it is provable. For any recursively axiomisable first-order theory of sufficient complexity, there exists some sentence which isn't provable [Goedel's First Incompleteness Theorem]: by contraposition of completeness, there exist models of the theory where the sentence is true, and models where the sentence is false.
So when you say "true but unprovable", you're probably talking about truth in the so-called "intended model": if something is independent of the first-order system (e.g. ZF) you're using as a foundation of mathematics, then you get to decide whether it's true or not! Once you've proven independence via e.g. forcing, it's up to you to decide whether the sentence should hold in your intended model: then you can add the appropriate axiom to your system.
Choice is independent from ZF: most mathematicians are OK with choice, so they chose to work in ZFC, but some aren't. Neither is "more valid" or "more true" from a purely logical perspective.