i don't pretend that the plural of anecdote is data, but i briefly owned an aston martin db9 convertible (my dream car), and a tesla model s p90dl. after a few weeks of every day waking up, looking at two sets of keys, and picking the tesla, i decided to sell the aston.
oops not that anyone cares but i realize my comment might be misleading. i owned the aston for years, and loved that car more than anything, but once i bought the tesla i owned both for a few weeks, then decided to sell the aston because the tesla was so superior (for me).
While I’ve enjoyed my own time with an Aston (likewise my Alfa 4C), they fail on many of the same quality and reliability axes that Tesla do. So I’m not sure your experience is that different from OP.