I have a pretty modest machine and zoom wins hands-down. It also "just works." I've had trouble getting non-technical people on hangouts/meet/whatever they call it today. Zoom "just works," and they've been responsive to peoples' concerns.

Zoom is the verb now.

I've had the complete opposite experience, getting someone to use Meet is easy, send them a link and they open it in their browser. Done.

Zoom it's "Download this, install it, wait for it to come up...", and forget trying to get someone to use the web version.

Disclosure: I work in Google Cloud, but not in Meet.