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> Many elderly people die of loneliness.

Good thing society banned people from visiting their relatives in nursing homes and assisted living facilities. We sentenced the oldest in our population to die in what amounts to solitary confinement.



I don't understand why you are getting down voted. You are dead on.

My wife worked with geriatrics. She directly saw the impact of having friendly people around the elderly. Even if you aren't visited by your family, any visitors can help. The pandemic made this especially difficult. My wife worked to overcome this: she partnered with a local "sniff" (think: old people left the hospital, but they need some help before they go home, so they go to an old-people hotel) to have fun events where people from our church would visit the elderly and just have fun.

Please visit the old people in your life.


Video calls weren't banned, so it wasn't as bad as for people that nobody calls at all.


Video calls are not the same. Never will be, we like to see our loved ones, hug them, seeing them on a screen is nice, but it is not the same.


I agree with you.

But it is dismissive to those people with nobody at all in their lives, to equate "got calls instead of in-person visits" with "nobody knows or cares about you and you will never receive a call from anyone for the rest of your life".

The GGP conflated those experiences but they are qualitatively different.

I'm fully in favour of visiting the old people in your life.

But I wish people would also spend some time brightening the lives of other old people as well.




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