Literally nobody is asking you to use vim. In fact, I don't recommend it to newbies, and warn that a lot of setup is involved. But I am 100x more productive in it than any other IDE, or seen anyone else with an IDE. It works for me. It may not work for you, that's fine.
You might be well served by not seeking out the company of vim users then. There’s better things to spend this life on than arguing about editors, plugins, and keybindings.
