It's just 3 months. Before cellphones went mainstream, most people used to travel and simply disappear from their families for years. This need to be in constant communication with everyone back home is a phenomenon that just started in the 2000s

> It's just 3 months.

This is an incredibly long time to be away from your family for many people.

> Before cellphones went mainstream.

Yeah, and before we had antibiotics people would die from simple infections, that doesn’t mean we should “rough it out” or somesuch nonsense.

It's a choice... we all make choices and trade-offs.

If not moving is not right for you, then you that's fine.

Unfortunately there are just too many people willing to jump at the chance for you to matter