You don't think post college jobs and experiences change you? You don't think being a salaryman vs a school teacher versus world travel changes your perspective values and behaviors?
But it is healthy to keep this perspective (Tyler durdens assertion) and always try to grow in some way that isn't involved with money
I agree with both. Your job is a pretty big part of your life and, like any experience you have, it shapes you.
You’re a complex and constantly evolving human. Your job is a part of you, like it’s your family, friends, education, hobbies, media you consume, ideas, secrets…
So, you’re not your job but your job is a big part of you.
But it is healthy to keep this perspective (Tyler durdens assertion) and always try to grow in some way that isn't involved with money