The only way out of this is an early retirement in a LCOL area or a job with a very good WLB (which is likely pretty rare for most HNers in the tech industry). Even ignoring overtime I'm typically tired when I get home from work and have other commitments alongside my hobbies and tinkering.
When you're an adult you have all the energy, all the money, but none of the time.
When you're a retiree you have all of the money, all of the time, but none of the energy.
A generalisation of course, but quite apt!