Except I'm pretty sure that I'm a good communicator. Background in sales and performing arts, mentoring and presenting are some of my strengths. I'm always immensely popular among my peers and I'm usually quite chill when it comes to horse trading and picking which hills to die on (isn't HTTPS one of those hills?). I appreciate that its probably a chip on my shoulder that's preventing self growth but I can't but feel a combination of youthful looks and lack of degree is the reason I seem to be constantly forced to prove myself again and again and again, despite often being one of the stronger technical members in the circle.
Maybe I've just got to do a better job of seeding ideas, so people think the ideas are theirs and accept them better. Maybe give them the ingredients of a very obvious sandwich instead of making it for them. Idk, I just can't help but feel discriminated against somehow because it doesn't make any sense to me to; not installing a cert on a server and rather forcing people to send their creds over clear; being vehemently opposed to using Sqlite (in more than one org!) when its an extremely appropriate option (in embedded or as an MSAccess replacement). Maybe on that http issue I should have followed my first thought and collected and sent that guy his own password to demonstrate the issue.
Maybe I've just got to do a better job of seeding ideas, so people think the ideas are theirs and accept them better. Maybe give them the ingredients of a very obvious sandwich instead of making it for them. Idk, I just can't help but feel discriminated against somehow because it doesn't make any sense to me to; not installing a cert on a server and rather forcing people to send their creds over clear; being vehemently opposed to using Sqlite (in more than one org!) when its an extremely appropriate option (in embedded or as an MSAccess replacement). Maybe on that http issue I should have followed my first thought and collected and sent that guy his own password to demonstrate the issue.