That your friend keeps a literal spreadsheet of the pussy he gets is a pretty arbitrary personal note you've already shared. Zoom into the breach! Tell me what is good about the women you've dated. Just one thing, even. Be as floral as you like.
Women I've dated were/are some of the nicest people with little to no meanness in them(something I personally find a huge turn off). Their niceness and care make my days and weeks and inspire me to reciprocate.
