FYI “cope” is closer to “delusion used to help you cope with reality” rather than “superficial fix”
Also, I think that some strategies, such as “comfort asking a parent for help navigating a situation” are timeless defenses against strategies like blackmail. There are probably some street smarts that change and some that stay the same.
Because the issue is:
- your street smartness is an outdated smartness
- there are multiple different types of assholes waiting to victimize someone that you don't know about
When the police, court, positive socioeconomic factors work only then do you for sure minimize the risk of your child being victimized.
The internet has open the floodgates to be a piece of shit and made it hard to do something about it.
Because if you live in the wild west it's a matter of when not if.