Instead of saying "are you sure?" or "shouldn't we do X instead?" you could say "give me the benefits and drawbacks of this compared to X".
Also, when you yourself are sure, give clear stear. "This overcomplicates A, let's do B instead."
Instead of saying "are you sure?" or "shouldn't we do X instead?" you could say "give me the benefits and drawbacks of this compared to X".
Also, when you yourself are sure, give clear stear. "This overcomplicates A, let's do B instead."