I find that when someone comes from an attitude of abuse and hostility towards it users, then later without taking responsibility and owning its original actions says “we changed were being nice now” that it isn’t really a change but a farce to continue to trick you. I used to be more gullible and naive and fall for these tricks, but not anymore.

You change when you take ownership of your past mistakes and share with those you harmed how you have done that. With some reparation and restoration of past harms. I haven’t seen openAI do that.