You're talking about it being hard to join the community.
That's arguably xenophobic depending on how you interpret the word. But it doesn't require anything resembling racism or homophobia.
I'm objecting to the idea that the downside of a tight-knit community is some kind of bigotry. Not just barriers to entry.
(Alternatively, if it's not a specific community, it's some super-wide group based on some obvious feature, than that group isn't keeping out abusers and someone in a different group has probably the same odds of being an abuser.)
That's arguably xenophobic depending on how you interpret the word. But it doesn't require anything resembling racism or homophobia.
I'm objecting to the idea that the downside of a tight-knit community is some kind of bigotry. Not just barriers to entry.
(Alternatively, if it's not a specific community, it's some super-wide group based on some obvious feature, than that group isn't keeping out abusers and someone in a different group has probably the same odds of being an abuser.)