That's true, I loved someone who i thought was out of my league, and ended up with her being the one thinking i'm out of her league ! of course we broke up within a year, but hey at least it happened !
The best way to solve this is to build yourself into more than what you are right now. That's more long term, short term you can try and polarise her and see if she's attracted to who you are now.
"heck, it's Valentines day, do something sappy and tell them how I feel"
I have never seen this actually work. I have failed doing it myself.
Sappiness is what girls want from the guys they are already head-over-heels attracted to. It does not work for converting a girl from neutral or slightly attracted into wanting to go with you.
The best thing to do is just to hang out with her casually, flirt, be playful, tease her, do active things, go for walks, have fun, and gradually escalate physically, escalate touching, escalate sexual innuendo in your conversation. If she reacts positively, escalate more, if not, then there is sometimes nothing you can do.
You could:
- Write a script
- Perhaps say you have feelings for her instead of dropping the L word. L is big. And I think it's hard to really make exist if you're not actually together for a while.
- Make sure you're aware / able to control your breathing while you tell her. Will chill you out.
