This is hard to explain and I didn't understand it either, after programming Java for 15 years. After 5 years of Scala I can't think of not using Option.
If you allow null as a return type you need to check for null if you want to use it or not. If you return Option[_] people e.g. just use map() on the return value and then map().map().map().map() on that etc. With Option your code usually does not care to check until the very last moment. Sorry my English is not good enough to make the point :-( And I know, saying "You need to use Option (and Applictives etc.) some years to grok" sounds arrogant and unsatisfactory. But I would not go back to a language without Option (and Applicatives etc.) usage in it's culture.
In Kotlin there's a bunch of null-handling operators, which allows you to really treat null as None. Like x?.y()?.z().
Moreover, you can define extension functions on nullable types, which covers Option's map and much more.
If you allow null as a return type you need to check for null if you want to use it or not. If you return Option[_] people e.g. just use map() on the return value and then map().map().map().map() on that etc. With Option your code usually does not care to check until the very last moment. Sorry my English is not good enough to make the point :-( And I know, saying "You need to use Option (and Applictives etc.) some years to grok" sounds arrogant and unsatisfactory. But I would not go back to a language without Option (and Applicatives etc.) usage in it's culture.